A person who is kind to others is not only happier and more joyful - people treat him the same way. The compassion, tolerance and consideration shown towards others will no doubt return to you one day.
Instructions
Step 1
Stop thinking that everything that you have at the moment, you owe only to yourself. Often in building the success of this or that person, the surrounding people, whose contribution is undeniable, take an active, but sometimes imperceptible part. Remember everyone who has ever taken part in your destiny and helped you become who you are now. Thank them and you will understand that a warm feeling will settle inside you and in the hearts of these people.
Step 2
Pay attention to the positive aspects of others, look for the pros. Remember that absolutely everyone has their own flaws, including you. But no one wants to be unloved for any of their shortcomings, for example, for lack of punctuality, and loved for the fact that they can always remain polite. Look from the same point of view at the people around you and you will immediately understand that there should be no place for criticism in interpersonal relationships.
Step 3
Be patient and understanding with other people's opinions. Everyone has their own system of values, their own worldview, individual concepts and corresponding arguments, their own dreams. Do not judge others by yourself. Approach people who are unlike you with interest, because such meetings are always a reason to change something in yourself, to learn new things.
Step 4
Avoid conflicts, learn to give in. Think about the fact that life goes on and, instead of a quarrel, it would be better to create something bright and kind. Then you will notice that the anger will fade away, and in its place will come the desire to create, not destroy.
Step 5
Do good deeds big and small every day. Help near and far, give souvenirs. Do not be stingy and remember that the more warmth and love you give, the more pleasant and brighter life will be for you. Become kinder to yourself, because the more respect you will treat yourself, the kinder you will begin to relate to others. Harmony and peace are built around those who have harmony and peace within.
