It is quite difficult to become an object of adoration from others. To do this, you must be a source of inspiration, positive emotions and a positive attitude. You may not be able to please all of you. But you can become such a person, at least for those closest to you.
Instructions
Step 1
Develop a sense of humor. Laughter helps create and maintain positive emotions while communicating. It helps people to gain courage in difficult situations, and also to look to the future with a positive attitude. Plus, just about any difficult situation you or your friends are in can be defused with humor. Smile more often, learn to make fun of yourself, others and circumstances. People will adore you for helping them deal with stress and filling their lives with positive.
Step 2
Try to maintain balance in your views and judgments, do not go to extremes. Remain impartial when discussing a sensitive topic. Get rid of prejudices and prejudices. When conducting a conversation on any topic (politics, weather, business, etc.), proceed from the assumption that no one can know the whole truth about the issue under discussion. Always leave room for different points of view. Recognize that your knowledge will always be limited and remember that even high-end experts can be wrong. People will listen to you willingly, they will appreciate your opinion and treat you with gratitude.
Step 3
Be honest with others. However, you don't have to be a tough person. Stay polite and polite. Honesty is always felt on an emotional level, and people always value it. Lies and deceptions manifest themselves immediately. They will push people away from you. Some may avoid communicating with you in the future.
Step 4
Try to be a condescending person. With this quality, you will attract people. Remember that people around you can make a large number of mistakes, many of which are unintentional. Emotional actions are always performed contrary to logic and common sense. Learn to forgive mistakes and offenses, do not be demanding of people. Put yourself in their shoes. Surely you would like to be treated the same way.
Step 5
If you are helping others, it should be unconditional. Always show respect for people and share advice if you feel you need them. Respect the individuality of people and do not try to change them. Remember that each person has their own life experiences. Do not expect anything in return from others, do not make them feel obligated.
Step 6
Let go of arrogance and inappropriate, unnecessary pride, if you have one. People with these qualities are often avoided and even secretly hated. They hurt the self-esteem of others. Even if you know that you have more knowledge than others, do not boast about it, it does not make you a smarter person. Be humble and humble. Many will adore you for this.
