If you are kind and treat others appropriately, not only will you have a happier and easier life, but people will treat you the same way. Everything in this world has a connection, so the kindness invested will return to you without a doubt. But how do you learn to be kinder to people?
Instructions
Step 1
Do not think that everything that you have now is only your personal merit. Often people are involved in building our success behind the scenes, but their contributions are undeniable. Remember and thank all those who, in one way or another, helped you to be exactly who you are now.
Step 2
You can do this to yourself, and this is even more important, since the main thing is your sincere feelings and feelings. But it will be much better if you express your gratitude verbally and say “thank you” to specific people for all that they have put into you. You will see that something will expand inside you, and a kind warm feeling will settle in your soul and in the hearts of your comrades.
Step 3
Look for the pros, not the cons, in people. Everyone has flaws, including you. But you don't want to be disliked just for being, say, not punctual. After all, this is not a reason, you must agree. Because you are kind and great at cooking, which means you have something to love for. Look at the rest of the people from the same perspective, and you will notice how your criticism fades away.
Step 4
Be tolerant and understanding of other people's opinions. Each person has his own worldview, his own concepts and arguments for them, his own system of values and his own unique dreams. Do not judge everyone by yourself, but rather treat a person who is unlike you with interest, because each such meeting is an occasion to change something in yourself, expand and supplement, as well as learn something new and amazing.
Step 5
Don't conflict. Everyone can start shouting, proving something, but there is usually little sense from this. And you think that at this very time your life is moving forward, and now, instead of a quarrel, you can create something kind and light. You will see, your ardor will fade away, and you will want to create, not destroy.
Step 6
Try to do small good deeds every day. For example, help an old woman cross the road, talk to your mom and tell her how much you love her, give your friend a small but nice souvenir. The more heat you give to the world, the more it returns to you. Remember this and do not skimp.
Step 7
Start with yourself and become kinder to yourself. Everything in this world is interconnected, and the way you treat yourself, how kind and respectful you are to your personality, so this is projected onto the people around you and the whole world in general. Remember, peace and harmony are built around the person who has peace and harmony inside.
