Poor people often condemn the rich, they envy them. They constantly argue about why some were lucky to be born in wealthy families and now, without doing anything, they can afford to literally throw money around. Such people themselves do not want to influence their lives, it is easier for them to lie on the couch and think about how bad everyone is, than to start doing something, thereby programming themselves for poverty. Only four factors help them in this.
Poverty justifies disorder
Look around you what you see. A sofa, a cozy kitchen, various things, albeit not rich, but a clean room. Or there is an apartment around you, which is in dire need of repair, and if it is put in order, it is very rare.
The last category is always justified by the lack of money. It is difficult for them to do even simple cleaning. Globally, it comes from a mentality in which poverty is justified by disorder and chaos. Such people believe that they are poor and unhappy, which means that nothing needs to be changed.
Wait for better times
Constantly waiting for a better life is another habit that leads to poverty. Such people can keep the new service, but drink from old mugs. They plan to start using it after renovation, after a general cleaning, or on Monday, which will start a completely new life. You cannot spend all the time in dreams, so you take the present from yourself. Poverty is, of course, terrible, but even worse - chaos in thoughts.
Be afraid to spend money on yourself
In her book, business lecturer and psychologist Natalya Grace tells about an acquaintance who saved all her money for a dacha for 20 years. At the same time, she had 2 daughters who constantly walked in rags and became the cause of ridicule for the entire yard. The girls were offended by their mother and ignored her purchase of the dacha. Now that they have grown up, the girls admit that they cannot spend a dime on themselves.
Inherited thinking
The worst problem is the poor man's mindset. It is laid down in childhood. When a child constantly sees broken cups, a mess at home and parents saving money for a rainy day. Having matured, he will begin to copy this demeanor and will want to live only this way and nothing else. Rarely, when children, seeing poverty around them, try to change the situation. As a rule, the factor of genetic poverty is at work here. The rest of the cases are an exception to the rule.
