Another writer Charles Bukowski noted that being alone is not the worst thing in life. Maybe it's time to reconsider your manic craving for finding a soul mate and just enjoy the freedom?
Instructions
Step 1
Find yourself. It would seem that we know ourselves as flaky - height, weight, eye color, and so on. But loneliness will help to look inside ourselves, to reveal all the weaknesses and strengths, and will bare our soul. It's time to find out who you really are and see yourself outside the image invented for others.
Step 2
Managing your own life. How many people dissolved in the relationship and desires of another person, completely forgetting about themselves, about their dreams and ambitions. Think about yourself and what you want. A good partner should help you self-actualize, and not ruin everything in the bud. It is better to be alone than to regret the unfulfilled later in old age.
Step 3
Self-improvement and trust. Left alone with yourself, you will discern hidden talents in yourself and begin to develop them. Maybe thanks to them you will win the favor of others. Self-confident people, those who have realized themselves as individuals, are always very attractive.
Step 4
Learn new and unknown. Being out of a relationship at the same time means not depending on anyone. You are free to choose a movie that is worth watching, a country to visit, a cuisine to try. The entire treasure chest of the world is open to you.
Step 5
Psychological health. Often times, relationships not only fail to build self-confidence, but vice versa. Take advantage of the respite to come to a state of harmony.
Step 6
Create your own rules. Often times, in a relationship, you have to put your partner's comfort and desires first. But who will think of you? Now you are free to do whatever you please, no one will condemn you for selfishness and no one will forbid anything.
Step 7
Love and respect yourself. The world won't love you if you don't love yourself. This is the old and wise truth. Starting a relationship and not loving yourself at the same time is a utopia that leads to a loss of self-esteem and a life of constant oppression. Love yourself, and you will no longer choose a partner who treats you without the respect it deserves.
