Each of us is surrounded by a large number of people. Colleagues, fellow students, acquaintances of acquaintances. But there are never many real friends. How to understand if this is the person? Time will tell, but we will take a closer look.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, you should not be afraid to make a mistake in choosing the person whom you let closer to you than the rest. No one demands to immediately indulge in revelations. No. There is only your will, what to say and what to do. After all, there are meetings when we open our souls to a complete stranger, which makes it feel good and easy. But this person will leave, and someone has to stay.
Step 2
Each of us at least once, but regretted telling someone, entrusted with a secret. The main thing here is that you do not regret the deed itself. In this case, you conclude about the person, that he cannot be trusted so much. But don't slam the door on him once and for all. Who knows what will happen next. Everyone is wrong.
Step 3
Their people - who are they? It can be both those who share your interests, be it outlook on life or hobbies, but also just those people with whom it is good to talk, share opinions, discuss something. After all, it is not for nothing that they say that truth is born in a dispute. Sometimes people with opposite views find a common language more easily than with similar ones. People are different, but everyone finds himself an interesting companion.
Step 4
Conversations are good. But think about who from your close circle you could really trust. Who can trust you. This is clearly not the one who "behind the back" says something completely different than he will tell you personally. Such people should not be allowed too close. But if there is a person who will always tell the truth without fear of offending you and, most importantly, hears your view of the problem, he really deserves your attention.
Step 5
Look closely at people, but do not judge harshly. You are hardly perfect yourself. There will certainly be someone who will come to the rescue in difficult times and will rejoice with you when at least you alone feel good. There cannot be many such people. But they will definitely be there.
