Modern people sometimes live in a fictional world, they cannot concentrate on the present moment, they cannot really assess what is happening. To change your life, you need to honestly look around and admit that everything around is imperfect.
Instructions
Step 1
A person in his thoughts often runs away into the past or into the future. He thinks about how he could have done everything differently in the moments that have already passed, sometimes he returns to the happy days that were before. And you can also run ahead, into dreams, where everything will definitely turn out, where all desires will come true, and the world around you will help in everything. At the same time, there is no idea of the present, it is completely ignored.
Step 2
Sometimes a person has a strange idea of himself. Oy may think that he is a highly sought-after specialist, a good friend, or an excellent conversationalist. But in reality, things often turn out to be wrong. Real circumstances may contradict fictitious ones, but, not wanting to realize this, a person hides behind his ideals, behind his dreams. To change something, you need to start by realizing that everything is not quite what it seems.
Step 3
To go into reality, you need to look at yourself and at life without illusions. Your salary today speaks volumes about your value. If it meets expectations, then you are a really good specialist. But if not, then you are not that much in demand. There is no need to blame the place of residence, the crisis in the country, or poor education. In any external circumstances, there are people who earn tens of times more than you, and they are real professionals that companies are willing to pay. You are not so valuable, so you are content with little.
Step 4
Look at your life partner, your partner reflects your self-esteem. If there is an interesting person nearby who meets your expectations, who pleases and brings something valuable and important into the house, then you are in luck. If something is wrong, there is no need to blame others, then you yourself have attracted an imperfect companion, and this indicates that you yourself are not so harmonious. You do not need to immediately abandon the relationship, start transforming yourself, take responsibility for this union and make it better, help your loved one change with you.
Step 5
Think, does this world need you, are there people who appreciate you? To what extent are your friends and entourage genuinely interested in your company? Are they not looking for some benefits from communication, are they trying to get something other than your team? It is necessary to correctly assess everything that surrounds. The shortcomings of friends, their weaknesses are almost always present in yourself, look at them as in a mirror, get to know yourself and start changing.
Step 6
To return to reality, you need to honestly admit to yourself that life is not too perfect. No need to convince yourself that others are getting worse, look up to the best. Allow yourself to see the flaws, and then decide to fix it. No need to hide behind illusions, it's time to make your life better.
