You have been married for a certain number of years, you already have big children, you even have grandchildren, but your relationship with the other half still amazes others: they are as bright and unpredictable as when you were 18 and everything was just beginning. What's the secret?
Instructions
Step 1
Respect each other
Probably, this is important in any relationship, both just beginning and existing for many years - without respect there will be no mutual understanding. Respect each other's interests. He is a lover of fishing and hunting, and she, for example, enjoys shopping. But a wife can at least occasionally keep a company with her husband on a fishing trip, or at least just ask about hooks, fishing rods, etc. And the husband can offer his wife to go shopping with her, and it is even more wonderful if finances are added to this offer.
Step 2
Communicate
Very often couples who have been living together for many years turn their relationship into … neighborly. All communication is reduced to "hello" in the morning and "hello" in the evening. Well, what is the brightness and unpredictability of the relationship! Communicate, share, consult. Show your half a desire to participate in her life, so that in any situation she feels support in you. How nice, being at work, to hear a native voice in the telephone receiver: “I really wanted to just hear you”.
Step 3
Add variety to your relationship! Don't sit at home
Don't turn your life into gray days. Imagine how boring it is for many years to live every day according to one scenario - woke up, cooked a meal, gathered the children, went to work, came home from work, ate - and on the sofa in front of the TV set, to sleep. And so every day. It's no wonder that some of you will want to escape this routine. Do not forget: our life completely depends on us. Tonight after work you can go to the cinema, tomorrow, for example, just take a walk together, and the day after tomorrow you can go and visit someone.
Step 4
Shared wallet
It's good when everyone has their own pocket money, but how wonderful it is when the family has a common budget. And not so that one is engaged in accumulation, while the other spent all the money for everyday life. Do not forget that the family is when the worries are common. Nothing brings together like a joint trip to some mega-store to buy … a sofa or new wallpaper!
Step 5
Remember to compliment each other.
So what if you have been husband and wife for many years! So what if you no longer need to win the attention or favor of each other! You can get real pleasure from creating a good mood for the household. For example, to give a compliment to your soul mate in the morning, even saying the banal "Honey, you look so good." Be sure that she will be in a good mood for the whole day!
