Probably everyone has heard about crises in family life, regardless of their marital status. There is even a classification of these crises proposed by a number of psychologists. However, all of them can be successfully overcome by listening to the advice of experts.
Instructions
Step 1
In any conflict that arises, seek a compromise. Stop hiding resentment, always look for solutions to the problem that has arisen, reconsider your attitude towards it.
Step 2
Before you bill each other, grieve, and propose a divorce, count to ten silently, inhale deeply and exhale several times. Better go to the balcony or the street, go to the store, take out the trash. The irritation will almost certainly disappear.
Step 3
Confess your love to each other more often. Be generous with praise and gratitude. Remove the word "divorce" from your vocabulary.
Step 4
Get involved in pregnancy together. Let the husband pat his wife on the belly, and talk to the baby with her. After your baby is born, take care of him together by showing how much he needs you and each other. Praise each other, jointly participate in housekeeping and raising children, stop looking for reasons for conflict in the little things, even if the house is not in perfect order or one of you is late at work. The main thing is that there is comfort in the relationship between loving people.
Step 5
When stability comes in the material and other spheres of life and some monotony in the relationship comes, continue to move on. Arrange surprises for each other, make romantic trips, hikes. Renew the decor in the house, change furniture, household appliances. Find an activity that you both enjoy together, such as dancing.
Step 6
If the crisis does come, try to find a joint solution. In any period of family life, it is better to find a point of intersection than to destroy the family. Crises can happen in any family, but they are not a cause for despair. Together you will be able to get out of any, even the most difficult situation and live a happy life in an atmosphere of love, joy and mutual respect.
