Mistakes spoil the mood, add problems to life. Who would refuse to learn to live without unnecessary obstacles? But first you need to figure out if this is possible - to completely protect yourself from mistakes.
Instructions
Step 1
Analyze the problems that most often happen to you in life. For example, if you periodically do not have enough money before your paycheck, think about why this is happening. Perhaps you are spending too much at the beginning of the month, and if you didn’t do this, there would be enough of them for the entire time. You really can not make such mistakes, you just need to learn how to do it.
Step 2
Control your words and deeds. A mistake can be made not only by your actions. You can offend a loved one with a careless word, quarrel with him, and this is also a rather unpleasant mistake that leads to difficulties in communicating with a loved one. Replay such stories of your life in your thoughts and try to understand why you did not hold back your emotions, let them spill out. Such a thorough analysis will help you to prevent a similar situation in the future.
Step 3
Think about why you are so afraid of making a mistake. Perhaps this fear comes from childhood, when you were afraid to do something wrong so as not to receive a reprimand from your parents. Often mistakes lead to feelings of guilt, although if you figure it out, then you are an adult, and your own conscience can best assess your offense, so try to come to an agreement with it.
Step 4
Change your attitude towards mistakes. Think, any of them leads to experience. Once you've identified which troubles happen to you most often, try to translate them into a positive direction. For example, if you often disagree with other people's opinions, even if they are correct, say to yourself, "Yes, I am stubborn, but I am very persistent and difficult to be confused."
Step 5
Stop being afraid to stumble. Perhaps a small shot in the present will save you from big problems in the future. It is possible that if you manage to perceive mistakes differently, you will actually begin to make them less. After all, people often attract their fears. Get rid of them and your life will change for the better.
