You would rather remove it from the face of the earth. But this does not mean that you should behave like a Neanderthal when divorcing! If you want to divorce with honor, you must not make any of the following mistakes.
1. Taking children as hostages.
The threat that one of the partners will not be able to see the children is, indeed, a powerful weapon. Although men in this situation are often at a disadvantage, since the court often leaves the child in the care of the mother, never threaten that you will try to do everything to prevent her from seeing the children, and so on. Children should stay out of your bickering!
2. Connect a new partner.
The most common factor that turns relatively normal communication between two divorcing people into disgusting fingering of dirty laundry is another woman. Therefore, you can hardly be surprised by your ex-partner that at any mention of your mistress, she has a fit of hysteria. You wouldn't like her new partner's interference either. Divorce is an issue that only concerns the two of you, so don't involve anyone else in it.
3. Use verbal attacks.
Almost all divorces argue, but this does not mean that in the context of clarifying positions, it is necessary to use communication, for which you will later be ashamed. Threats, emotional blackmail, vulgarity, and similar verbal weapons are common to primitive individuals, but not to you.
