Saying "no", we sometimes cross out someone's faith and hope for the future. But this is sometimes necessary if you clearly know that you will not be happy with this person. It is necessary to refuse women in such a way that there is no ambiguous interpretation of the situation, and at the same time not offend her pride.
Instructions
Step 1
It is very difficult for a woman to take initiative in relation to a man. This is always accompanied by excitement and excessive emotionality. That is why the words of refusal should sound as correct and respectful as possible, without any share of ridicule and barbs. A calm and supportive tone will be the key to mutual understanding and trusting relationship with each other.
Step 2
If she was not initially seen as a potential partner in a relationship, you should not say "you are not my type." This will definitely hurt and lower her self-esteem. Be gentle, without prejudice to the woman's dignity, say: "my heart already belongs to another" or "I am not ready for a serious relationship." These words will not cause negative, as they are meaningful and logical.
Step 3
Refusal words must be deliberate and well-grounded. It is desirable that this conversation be the first and last (with regards to relationships), that is, all priorities should be set at once. Avoid vague words: I don’t know, maybe it could be something like that. The exclusion of these semantic turns will bring clarity, the conversation will be affirmative, understandable and complete.
Step 4
During a conversation, it is best to look your interlocutor directly in the eyes, in no case lowering your gaze to the floor or even worse to heaven (in this case, they obviously will not help). A direct open gaze will demonstrate sincerity, and a downward-looking and hidden look will give the impression of a certain alienation and indifference to a partner.
Step 5
The last words should show affection for the woman and sound like a mini-compliment. For example, “I am very pleased that I cause such bright feelings in you”, “you are so brave that you were not afraid to tell me about it, did not hide anything”, “I would not want this conversation to ruin our friendship, because you have become very dear to me. This will brighten up the negative aftermath of the conversation and add positive emotions.
