Surely, every woman has moments in a relationship with a man when she says something to him, and he, as if listening, does not hear and does not understand what she is talking about … To achieve what she wants and at the same time avoid conflict, ladies need take into account the psychological characteristics of men and follow a few simple rules in communication.
- Remember that the average man can hardly focus on several sources of information at the same time and do several things at once, so you should not try to convey a problem to him while watching TV or when he is driving. At best, a man will simply ignore everything that you are trying to convey to him, at worst - he will get angry.
- If you want to get things done, choose the best time to talk to your man: after you've fed him delicious food. When a man is happy, calm and peaceful, he will listen to you. When a man is stressed, irritated, or depressed, it is better to postpone the discussion of the problem to another time.
- Try to express your main idea clearly, clearly, but not in high tones and not in an orderly manner. For the most part, men perceive badly when women speak a lot, allegorically or in hints.
- It is desirable that one request be voiced at a time, so there are more chances that it will be heard and fulfilled.
- Be aware that a man receives information from a woman no longer than the first ten to twenty seconds! This is confirmed by research by psychologists. Then he automatically continues to nod his head, mentally switching to other topics. Therefore, have time to give out the most important thing at the beginning of the conversation!
- If you want a man to just listen to you or sympathize without making any decisions, then tell him directly and say this: I want to share with you, can you listen to me? If you need advice from a man or a decision, also immediately voice it, the man will tune in accordingly.
- It is also very important to consider the following factor. If your man talked a lot during the day, in the evening he just needs to stay for some time in the "house", be silent, watch TV. With the help of this kind of meditation, he recovers his psychic powers. This is far from the best time to talk, much less to sort things out.
