A person needs communication. No wonder, in ancient times, the most severe punishment was the expulsion of a person so that he would not be able to communicate. There are individuals who can talk incessantly, easily and with everyone. But there are people for whom the first words in a conversation are difficult. The need to strike up a conversation is especially high for such people.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, you need to set yourself up for a conversation and stop worrying. It is because of the excitement that most people fail to strike up a conversation. Excitement makes you confused in words, forget suitable phrases. That is why people immediately fall silent.
Step 2
How do you start a conversation? First of all, you should start with neutral topics. Look around you. There are so many surrounding objects around, so we choose any. Cars, flowers, houses, clothes, furniture, books, etc. can be the initial topic of conversation. If you're outside, talk about the weather. Having chosen one thing, or rather several, we proceed to the actual conversation. Tell a potential interlocutor your opinion about the chosen subject, ask what he thinks. Tell us interesting facts if you know.
Step 3
Ask, but not intrusively, the interlocutor about his life, study or work, hobbies. Try to ask sincerely, not because it is necessary. If the interlocutor feels interested in your questions, then be sure that he will not be stopped. The personality is designed in such a way that it always wants to share its thoughts. Don't pause. Once the other person has stopped, insert your reasons and thoughts.
Step 4
Try to keep the conversation going. But don't make it turn into a serious argument. Conflicts of interest are common, but remember that overuse of a dispute can lead to conflict. In a dispute, truth should be born, not enmity.
