In order for the long-awaited changes to happen in this or that area of our life, we need to make room for them! When our life is busy with old relationships, thoughts and things, there is simply no place for a new one. Therefore, do not be afraid to part with what no longer brings you satisfaction. Be open to what life can give!
Space
In order to make room for a new one, we will carry out a general cleaning. Perhaps something you have never done before. You should get rid of those things that have not been used for a long time, which have ceased to please, which simply litter your living space.
After all, unwillingness, fear of parting with the old means that we do not believe that something better can come into our lives. And if we ourselves do not believe, then we do not allow life to fill our existence with things that will delight us.
It turns out to be a contradiction. We all expect good things, we think that we deserve the best, but at this time we do not let go of what we have now. Even if it only brings frustration. Life will not change if we do not change ourselves and change our attitude towards it!
Therefore, we say goodbye to old stuff. In free space, it is easier to breathe and dream. Let the closets and closets, shelves and mezzanines undergo a strict audit. We are guided by the principle of whether the thing is useful, whether it helps in life. The usefulness of an object may be, for example, that it makes us happy. We are not dissembling, we are shifting from place to place with thoughts, "maybe in years … it will be needed!"
Do not forget that you should clean up the space not only at home, but also where you work. If it's an office, clean up your desk and get rid of unnecessary paper and other junk.
Relationships
As for our relations, here we need to act in a similar way. If you are not satisfied with your partner and he, in turn, is not ready to change, then you should not continue this torment further, it is pointless.
It so happens that the relationship has already been completed for several years, but we mentally continue to be attached to them, do not let go of them. In this case, if we meet a potential suitable partner on our way, he may feel that we are "busy". And will pass by!
Thoughts
Our thoughts also need a thorough disassembly! If we are not ready to work with our heads, then what kind of changes can we talk about ?! We get rid of unnecessary, gloomy, pessimistic thoughts! This is not easy to do. The habit of thinking negatively has been developed over the years. The easiest way is substitution. We learn to find positive aspects in everything that surrounds us. We try to communicate with those people who are pleasant to us and who radiate optimism.
In order for a happy future to manifest itself more fully in the present, you need to deal with your past. We get rid of everything that hinders us, we become free and open to new things.
