Everyone sooner or later thinks about marriage. Starting a family is a complex process. To be called a family, it is not enough just to put a stamp in a passport, because the main thing in a family is respect and mutual understanding, and not passion and love, as many people think.
Of course, without love, too, a strong family hearth will not work, but mutual understanding and trust are the main things on which strong relationships are held, indestructible by the hardships of many years of life and routine.
When entering adolescence, comprehension of new possibilities begins, a feeling of adulthood and a desire to make decisions on their own appears. Unfortunately, it is during this period that many parents lose contact with their children.
Due to hormonal changes, adolescents behave aggressively, contradictory, do not want to listen to the instructions of their elders, which seem boring to them. They think that no one understands them. They find companies according to their interests, communicate, meet and, what is most dangerous, fall in love … It is then that real adult problems can begin. At a young age, relationships seem so easy without problems and only parents interfere with being together, it seems to many in love.
Time passes and, taking advantage of all the delights of adulthood, the carefree time comes to an end, with the advent of children, everything changes. Now two people who were once carefree, rested and endlessly in love face great challenges - with responsibility … Responsibility for their children, financial situation, housing problems, everyday life, and much more.
It is at this time that real feelings and readiness to create a family are manifested. Often, young newlyweds simply cannot cope with the pressure of events and blows all love away like the wind.
To prevent this from happening, you need to know a few rules. Time. All human qualities manifest themselves over time;
Hormones. They influence our attitude towards a person, they put on rose-colored glasses and hide flaws, the feeling of falling in love passes, but real feelings remain that cannot be compared with fleeting passion.
Before starting a family, you need to learn how to make decisions and act, feeling the full weight of responsibility for yourself and your actions. It is necessary to understand that the family is, first of all, unity with the other half, understanding each other and respect.
