Any action requires from a person not only a certain level of determination, but also the realization that responsibility for what has been done lies entirely with him. Therefore, it is so important not to make a mistake when the situation requires an immediate solution.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not hurry. In this situation, the sayings "laugh - make people laugh" and "measure seven times - cut one" are as relevant as possible. So that your act does not turn out to be reckless and hasty, you must have the most complete idea of the current state of affairs. Making a decision in the absence of information and a distorted view of what is happening promise failure. They say that the one who owns the information owns the world.
Step 2
Now you are aware of all the circumstances and can safely weigh the pros and cons. Excessive sensitivity and emotionality will only hurt here. You should also not measure everyone by your own yardstick - the people around you are not required to have the same moral values and personal qualities as you. Be impartial about how to proceed, even if the situation itself conflicts with your principles. Prejudice and the fact that the circumstances that have arisen are in themselves unacceptable for you do not contribute to the correct decision.
Step 3
If the question concerns only you, do not try to involve outsiders in its solution, and even more so shift your responsibility to them in case of failure. The answer to the question "what to do?" you have to find it yourself. Do not involve friends and family in finding the best solutions to the current situation, playing on their feelings. After all, if someone from them agrees to help you find the answer, and the act turns out to be wrong, you will throw off the entire burden of guilt on an innocent person.
Step 4
Your decision, however, turned out to be wrong? Do not be discouraged and do not dig yourself - this negatively affects self-esteem. Calmly analyze what happened so as not to fall into similar circumstances in the future.
