The naked body is beautiful, but in our society it is not accepted to show it. People have come up with clothes to hide their nature, and one day, parents begin to change clothes in the absence of the kids. It is important to pass this moment correctly so that there is no denial of nudity and sexual complexes.
How to dress next to your child
Already at the age of three, the baby instinctively understands his belonging to one of the sexes. At this time, parents begin to gradually hide their naked body from the child. It is important not to stop changing clothes next to him at the same time, but gradually do it less and less. We are talking about people of the opposite sex. For example, the exposure of a man in front of a daughter or a mother in front of a son should be reduced.
If a child catches you changing clothes, you do not need to be frightened and shyly cover all parts of the body. This may form the wrong attitude, the child will catch the moment of embarrassment, may feel that you are treating the body as something not good, this may further affect his behavior. Just tell him that you need to change, that you want to be beautiful, so he should wait in another room.
Public nudity
In modern collectives, naked people are left alone in three cases: when they belong to the same sex, when they are in an intimate relationship, or under the influence of external circumstances that cannot be influenced. At the same time, attitudes are formed that accompany everyone throughout their life. Of course, there are exceptions, for example, nudists can be naked in any situation, but this is a rare occurrence, not a given. It is important to explain to the child that they are not bad, but simply look at life differently. Let go of blaming those who have different views and tell your little one about the differences.
If you continue to dress next to your child at a conscious age, he may have doubts about his attitude to a particular gender. For example, if a daughter and mother dress up in front of a boy, and he realizes that this is not accepted in society, he begins to think about whether he is a boy? Such thoughts are typical at 10-13 years old. It is easier to avoid such situations, so as not to traumatize the psyche, or to give a good explanation, calling it a tradition of your family.
Attitude towards nudity
The attitude to nudity also gives rise to an explanation of how the human body works. If you avoid talking about the difference between the sexes, do not call individual organs by any names, embarrassment is formed in the child. He begins to think that this is indecent, wrong. In sexual life, this can play a bad role, as there will be many complexes that will be difficult to eliminate. It is better to tell everything honestly, using suitable names, in any medical encyclopedia there is an accurate description and you can use it.
Do not judge naked people, do not criticize too revealing clothes. Such words also form attitudes. Today there is freedom of self-expression, so it is worth respecting the desire to demonstrate oneself of each individual. Give your child the opportunity to independently form views on style and fashion, just show him the differences between classic things and too frank ones.
