To be different from always, you have to ask yourself, why do you want this? To banish boredom, find interesting adventures, change your life, find new friends? Or to surprise your surroundings? The answer to this question already contains half of the answer to the question of which direction one should work in order to become different from usual.
See yourself differently
Usually, people begin to change something in their lives, thinking about what they are doing every day that shapes their lives, in order to begin to respect themselves and not regret the wasted years. Also, sometimes you really want to impress someone. Doubts about whether something will work out of this venture almost always arise.
The main reason you decide to be different and change constantly is that you can do it. At some point, you realize that you can be any person you want: interesting, unusual, attractive, and so on. It all depends on how you look at yourself.
Explore everything around
Start by exploring everything that is within reach. Where do you usually go? What do you usually do? Try to do everything differently. Choose a different restaurant for your typical Friday dinner. Instead of visiting the mall every Saturday, head out of town and take a helicopter ride.
Select landmarks
You yourself are "not the same as always." Each person is alive and unique, and if you listen to your desires and your inner voice, then you will not be able to be ordinary and like everyone else, since your individuality will declare itself loudly. But this is not so easy to do, especially at first if in the past you have diligently closed your eyes to what your inner voice was trying to say. You can start by identifying a few people whose originality, maybe even extravagance, and independence appeals to you the most. These can be people from your environment or those you are just reading about. Now listen and take a closer look at what these people are doing. Go where they go. Take over their habits and those elements of the image that you like. One bright detail from several images - and you already look and behave very unusual, completely different from how you used to.
Chat with strangers
Stop being afraid of communicating with strangers. All the most unusual and interesting things come into a person's life together with new people. Some of them have been where you are unlikely to visit. Other people do things that you cannot decide on yet. The people you meet, perhaps only once in your life, who become your casual companions in a bar or on an airplane, can teach you more than all the advice and books put together. Perhaps one of the amazing strangers you meet wrote such a book.
Make up your mind
There are so many things that you want to do but are in doubt. Time passes, and with it your life passes, the same as usual. Whether you make a mistake or win - no one knows, then the stupor in making a decision that grips you will only lead to the fact that you will not decide on anything at all. After all, if making a decision is impossible, then flip a coin.
Look for new things in the real world, not on the Internet
Scrolling through the Vkontakte feed, leaving endless comments and liking your friends, you do not leave your comfort zone. You are doing what you are used to. But everything new and unusual is outside this comfort zone. All the worst: risky, unusual, difficult, incomprehensible - all this is what will bring something into your life that will allow you to be different from yesterday, and tomorrow not to be from today.
