Communication includes not only the ability to express one's thoughts well, but also the ability to listen to the interlocutor. You will understand much better what kind of person is in front of you if you are attentive to his words. And your interlocutor will be much more pleasant to communicate with you if he feels your interest.
Instructions
Step 1
Try not to think about something of your own when listening to another person. Don't be distracted by extraneous thoughts. Learn to focus on the conversation. Absent-mindedness makes it very difficult to delve into the meaning of the conversation.
Step 2
Try not to engage in extraneous matters during the conversation. Don't show your inattention. For example, being constantly distracted by telephone conversations, you will not be able to concentrate on your interlocutor. It is better to turn off the phone during a serious conversation.
Step 3
Don't prejudice the person. Do not think that your interlocutor is not able to say something smart, good, interesting to you. It will be very difficult to listen to him with due attention. And your arrogant attitude will not help to make a good impression on others.
Step 4
Sincerely, show interest in what they are saying will not only help you avoid distractions, but it will also make the other person want to communicate with you. Don't just listen, but try to have a dialogue. Ask leading questions, try to understand the meaning of the speech.
Step 5
Do not interrupt the interlocutor in mid-sentence, it is impolite and ugly. The person may get the impression that you are not only not interested in what he is telling you, but that you also do not respect his opinion.
Step 6
Let the person finish his thought, then think about what you heard for a while and only then express your opinion. If you come up with an answer during a conversation, you are sure to miss something important.
Step 7
Make eye contact with the speaker. An unpleasant impression is produced by a person who looks around, for example, examining the details of the interior. If you want to show your interest in the conversation, look at the other person.
Step 8
Don't forget about sign language. If you use poses that express your interest, with all your appearance, show how important this conversation is to you, you will be considered a pleasant interlocutor.
