Each person is unique, but not everyone can recognize the presence of peculiarities in the other. People are used to comparing each other, condemning and blaming different things. But if you learn to accept others, if you respect the opinion and individuality of others, life will become much easier.
Instructions
Step 1
Each person has different sides: both good and bad. Look at yourself first, because there is something to be proud of, and some qualities are very controversial. Likewise, in every other person, there is something beautiful and kind, but there is also something not very pleasant. And only the combination of all these properties makes each one unique. If you understand this point of view, believe in it, then it will be easier to communicate with people.
Step 2
Children are born in different places, study in very different conditions, and also gain experience. Someone has more, someone less. This forms different views. Someone understands life, relationships, someone likes technology, not psychology. And no one can be a professional in all areas. Therefore, when faced with ignorance, do not condemn, but remember that you are not an assassin in some areas. Just let the person go astray. Sometimes you need to get into an argument to prove a mistake, and sometimes you can just observe. If someone does not have certain knowledge, then he simply did not need it. Take it for granted, don't get annoyed.
Step 3
People feel joy in different ways, endure suffering. For some, the worst is the pain of their relatives, for others, the loss of money. There are no single values for everyone, they are individual. So don't blame people if they don't do what you think is right. They have their own priorities, their own desires, they are guided by them. Try to understand why they do this, analyze the behavior, but do not rate. Everyone lives by their own principles, and it is very difficult to fix something in the other.
Step 4
Start looking at people's lives as if from the outside. Discover different views, different types of behavior and reactions. In this case, do not interfere, do not try to understand what is right and what is not. Just know that this is the opinion of the other, for him it is optimal. This is a very exciting process, get into it, and you will always be as if out of situations. Do not lose this position in moments of communication, just watch what happens. Do not get into arguments, do not prove your case, let the person be anything.
Step 5
Look for different sides in every event, in every deed. In good deeds there is always room for something negative, and in bad deeds there is always good. In the life of any person, everything is interconnected, and it is sometimes difficult to understand what is good and what is not. After all, even character traits are shown on a different side every time, for example, sometimes stubbornness is bad, and sometimes this is the ability to act in your own way, to prove to the whole world that you are right and achieve a result. Understanding the duality of what is happening, you will become more tolerant, and some features of other people will only cause a smile, and not negative experiences.
