In addition to material benefits, psychological comfort plays an important role in a person's life. Making your life better and more harmonious is not difficult, although you will have to make a number of significant changes to it.
No negative
First, get rid of the negativity that surrounds you. Minimize your interactions with unpleasant people who annoy you and drain your energy. “Toxic” people can be different: boors, whiners, pessimists or annoying talkers. Do not waste your precious time communicating with such individuals, it takes energy, spoils your mood and drives you into stress.
Reconsider your priorities. Maybe it's time to change your hated job for a more enjoyable one? Do not be afraid of change, change your life for the better. This also applies to the place of residence. Fate often rewards the brave and it is quite possible that your place is in another city or even in another country.
Do not tell anyone about your innermost dreams and big plans. Better to report results than ephemeral ideas.
Learn to say no. Don't be sucked into conflict and don't feed "energy vampires". Try to relax and disengage from the negativity. If you cannot influence the situation, just accept it. It means that it was given to you as a lesson. Analyze the event that happened, draw conclusions for yourself and just move on.
Do not dig into the past, it takes a lot of energy and drives you into melancholy. You still won't be able to change or redo anything there, so drop the old as a heavy burden and live in the present.
Another common mistake is life as a draft. Do not put off anything "for later", because this "later" may not come. Live in the present, here and now. Wear smart clothes, eat out of pretty dishes, and don't expect a "special occasion." Your whole life is a special case!
Love yourself
Stop "digging into yourself" and complexes, relax, let go of all fears and just love yourself.
Pamper yourself and invest in personal development maximum strength and capabilities. You don't have to spend your last money on branded items or traveling around the world. A trip to the cinema, a delicious cupcake or a pleasant evening with friends are lovely joys that warm the soul and pamper your “I”.
Realize your uniqueness and stop listening to the opinions of strangers. This is your life, and, unfortunately, it is finite, so try to fill it with interesting events and bright positive emotions.
Learn to see the joy in small things and everyday life. Positive thinking is not fiction, it really works. Once you bring joy into your life, you will be amazed at the change.
Take a simpler approach to life. Try not to discuss religion and politics. These are notoriously failed conversation topics that will not bring joy to you or your interlocutor.
Forget about judgment and moralizing. Other people also have the right to privacy and their own vision of the situation. As soon as you stop proving your case and giving advice to others, you will have a lot of time for yourself and your business.
Do not stand still, constantly develop and improve yourself. Read a lot, travel, learn new things and communicate with people. Do not be afraid of changes, they will not let you "sour". And a new hobby may become your life's work.
Share your joy with the world and do charity work. The Universe is very generous and will certainly reciprocate you.
