You can often hear the opinion that the greatest strength of a woman lies in the ability to be weak. In reality, she is not weak at all, but she knows how to seem like that. The strength of a woman's character is something completely special and not noticeable at first glance.
Few men will say that he likes strong women. But these are only words, in fact, if a woman has strength of character, this does not mean at all that she will push her husband around and command him. On the contrary, such behavior is characteristic of those who do not feel confident, and therefore cannot do without demonstrating "leadership".
A strong woman is one who maintains self-confidence under all circumstances. She is independent both spiritually and materially. In the past, there was no need to talk about material independence, since social roles were distributed rather rigidly: a woman sits at home with children, and a man earns money. Today, an increasing number of women prefer not to spend their lives washing diapers and at the stove, but are building a career on a par with men, if not better than them.
At the same time, a really strong woman will not depend on a man, even if only he works in the family. After all, as often happens: having married and considering herself well-off, a girl can relax, stop developing, begin to completely depend on her husband, and not only in material terms, but also psychologically. A strong woman would never allow that.
It happens that women who are strong in terms of their careers and the implementation of work projects, who are accompanied by inevitable success in business, cannot improve their personal lives. The paradox is that strong people attract the weak. There are more weak men around such a woman than those with whom she would feel on an equal footing.
A strong woman knows how to deal with her weaknesses at a critical time. Anything can happen in life, but when unpleasant surprises happen or the situation is such that it can be more successfully called a disaster than just a state of affairs, a strong woman knows how to pull herself together. She will not waste time on snot, although later, of course, she will cry on her friend's shoulder. But now she will pull herself together and do everything to fix the situation.
A strong woman is able to survive and forgive other people's weaknesses. If there are people next to her who are not equal to her in all respects, she will not petty and vindictively remind them of their mistakes. She will help them, starting by forgiving and extending a helping hand. Strength also means generosity, so she will not conceal resentment. A strong woman knows how to forgive.
