Often, when raising a child, parents have a problem - children are trying to manipulate them. Some of them are amenable to manipulation. What can you do in order not to be hostage to children's whims?
Excessive custody of a child
If the child does not have any responsibilities, for example, to wash the dishes for himself, to any request to fulfill some order (to put away toys, wash the dishes, etc.), the child will react negatively, get nervous, and quarrel with his parents. Tantrums will become a constant reaction. In order to avoid this, you need to see the line and not cross it, you can not pamper the child too much.
Education should be carried out so that the authority of the parents is never in doubt. Even if the parents can be gentle and loving while playing with the child, in the moments when the child must fulfill some responsibilities, it is necessary to be strict. But you can't raise your voice to the child and swear, you just need to explain to him that his help is very important.
If a child is throwing tantrums when the parents do not obey his wishes, you just need to not react. If the parents immediately begin to please and praise their child, then the manipulation was successful, and if they do not react to the hysteria, they go to another room, then the child will stop being capricious, since he needs an observer. But if the parents show weakness, the child will manipulate them, put pressure on pity and achieve his goal.
