Since a person learned to convey his thoughts to his descendants through writing, there are known complaints from men against women. More precisely, the fact that it is absolutely impossible to understand them! That their logic - that is, what women call this word - is generally inaccessible to comprehension. But the whole point is that men and women are simply arranged differently. The peculiarities of thinking of both "strong" and "weaker" sex are explained, first of all, by the difference in hormones. And it is not at all so difficult for a man to understand a woman, subject to some simple conditions.
Instructions
Step 1
Immediately, clearly and clearly tune in to the fact that you are not dealing with a man, but with a woman, and therefore the reaction to your words may not be at all what you expect! Oddly enough, many men forget about it.
Step 2
Remember that women are much worse and slower than men to "grasp" the whole problem. That is why men often reproach them with the fact that they “do not see the forest for the trees”. But where it comes to small details, nuances, they can easily "plug in the belt" of the stronger sex. Women are generally very attentive to trifles and are genuinely offended, not receiving small, but such dear to heart signs of attention from men - do not forget about this!
Step 3
If possible, contain your negative emotions. Even if you have a big trouble at work, if everything inside is boiling with irritation and resentment, try to remain calm, at least outwardly. Women appreciate this very much. You will immediately appear in her eyes as a serious, judicious person who can be trusted, with whom you want to get to know better.
Step 4
If your relationship has become close enough, do not forget: even the hottest fire will sooner or later die out if no fuel is added to it! Affectionate words, gifts, assurances of love work wonders. Including, helping to better understand and get to know this strange and incomprehensible creature - a woman.
Step 5
By the way, the first jokes like: "When, finally, will they create a textbook on women's logic ?!" also appeared in ancient times. Well, snide sayings like: "Hair is long, mind is short!" still in use. Offended women, of course, did not remain in debt, already composing their own jokes about male stupidity and helplessness. They say that only rare fools can fail to understand a woman, not to delve into the intricacies of her thinking! Such as 90 percent of men.