How to understand a woman? The eternal question that worried the minds of the greatest poets and writers. In fact, not such a difficult question, for those who know how to observe and analyze. Let's watch the girlfriends and figure out how women compensate for their complexes and shortcomings at the expense of their "favorite" girlfriends.
Slightly reveals the feminine essence of the relationship between friends in the classic duet "Pretty Woman and Ugly". As a rule, such "friendship" begins to emerge during school years. The beautiful girl, with whom all the boys in the class are in love, begins to feel like a queen. A slightly haughty look, a slightly raised eyebrow, a condescending smile - a familiar picture? An inalienable attribute of the reigning person is the retinue, and now, the question arises - where to get this retinue? Intuitively, such a girl begins to weed out everyone who, at least a little bit, is competition for her. Find! A gray mouse lined with textbooks, preferably in bifocals - exactly what you need!
The queen chooses an ugly girlfriend for herself, thereby satisfying two of her needs at once. The first - against the background of such a companion, she is always irresistible, and the second - the manifestation of power through patronage, because the "bespectacled mouse" is an outcast. Yes, dear men, queens - they are. And this attitude is unlikely to change over time. The Queen will never sink a notch lower than her entourage. Such a woman will never be your partner, she will always allow you to love herself, allow herself to be looked after, she will always do a favor with her presence alone.
Now consider the second member of our duet. The ugly girl who is chuckled at in class is never invited to parties, she is modestly and cheaply dressed. She longs for recognition and dreams that one day she will turn from an ugly duckling into a beautiful swan. Our mouse is smart enough and understands that the only weapon in its arsenal is intelligence. She gladly accepts the "friendship" of the beauty queen. This chance is a great opportunity to get out of the dullness in which she is. Deftly using its erudition, our mouse turns "friendship" into a struggle. In the struggle for recognition and attention. Over time, she will hone her intellectual prowess and transfer it into relationships with men. Such a woman always knows everything better than you. Her ironic remarks will always leave a smack of humiliation.
Relations in the duet of girls "Pretty Woman - Ugly" (and later - two women) are built on the constant, seemingly innocent, joking with each other. But if you carefully observe, then apart from public humiliation of each other, you will not see anything. The Queen will give advice in a patronizing tone - how to dress, what they wear today, preferably in the presence of men. And the ugly woman, preferably in the presence of men, will discuss highly intellectual topics, and explain to the queen in "simple language" what, in fact, is a question of.
Want to get to know a woman better? Take a closer look at her best friend, because every woman in friendship wants to get something. And having understood what exactly she wants, you can reveal the secret of the female soul.
