"11 years, for what ?!" - the first grader cries, who on September 1 is forcibly led to the school line. Indeed, school years are far from wonderful for everyone, but they cannot be canceled. There are several things you can do to help you not feel unhappy just because life is still limited by the walls of the school.
Instructions
Step 1
First, find out what exactly annoys you in your home school. Too busy class schedule? Misunderstanding of teachers? Inability to build relationships with classmates? Solve these issues consistently, without striving at all costs to become a popular person.
Step 2
Do not think that excellent students, handsome men and merry fellows adore school. In fact, it is difficult for everyone. It's just that someone knows how to hide their bad mood, learn from them. Do not be discouraged, cheer up those who are nearby, then, at least, loneliness will definitely not threaten you.
Step 3
Don't conflict. Teens often feel that the best way to settle contentious issues is to be aggressive. Believe me, this is not the case. Train endurance, do not get excited, trying to insist on your own. But also do not let you be in charge. Take a neutral position in disputes, it will help you out more than once.
Step 4
It is not school's fault that some sciences are not your strong point. Try not to transfer your negative attitude to teachers, it is better to ask them to work out with you additionally. Or come to terms with the fact that some items are simply not given to you. It is not at all necessary to be an excellent student. The certificate is not the only criterion for success in life.
Step 5
Participate in school concerts and other activities, even if they seem boring to you. Make it fun. Learn poetry, sing to the guitar, dance. You will have something to show. Down with the complexes! Anyone who sits quietly in a corner while others are having fun will simply have nothing to remember.
Step 6
As difficult as it is, you can always take comfort in the thought that school problems will end after prom. But the experience you have gained in overcoming difficulties has made you stronger. The skill of resolving conflicts will come in handy in any team.
Step 7
If you still fail to fall in love with school, do not despair. You can learn and communicate without being passionate about your surroundings. It is enough just to understand that the world around us does not have to be ideal and accept it that way - with all its imperfections.
