Each person chooses his own destiny. But at any age it can be changed. In numerous works of the popular psychologist Mikhail Litvak, advice is given on how exactly this can be done.
When is it time to change destiny
On the one hand, man is a complex biological organism. But the most important thing is the personality in the socio-psychological plane. Each has its own fate-determining algorithm of actions. He can be both right and wrong. In the second case, it takes a long time for a person to understand what is “wrong”. Sometimes outwardly everything in life can turn out well. But at the same time, a person constantly makes the same mistakes. In relations with relatives and colleagues, he steps on the same rake. Medicinal treatment is powerless here. But if, nevertheless, an understanding of the need to change your own destiny has come, you can use the following advice from Mikhail Litvak.
Mikhail Litvak's advice
The first advice: it is impossible to re-educate anyone except yourself.
Tip two: you should always try to provide and receive feedback.
The third tip: to love another, you need to love yourself.
Fourth tip: you need to set realistic goals, even if they seem unattainable at first.
Fifth advice: it is better to negotiate than to conflict.
Sixth tip: it is important to learn to appreciate what is, and not what is not.
Seventh advice: you need to live not in pleasure, but in joy.
Eighth advice: get rid of the main enemies in time - fear, guilt and envy.
The ninth advice: you cannot constantly feel the feeling of your own worthlessness.
Tenth tip: develop your own inclinations, in accordance with gender, temperament and character.
Eleventh advice: do not ignore your own abilities, which determine the life path of everyone.
Council twelve: to constantly improve the level of your own professionalism, as the best way not to succumb to neurosis.
Thirteenth advice: to be plastic, i.e. change along with a radically changed situation.
Council fourteenth: leave alone your own children, giving them the opportunity to develop as a free person.
Council fifteen: change your position in interaction with yourself and others from negative to positive.
With these tips, you can do more than build relationships with friends, family, and colleagues. But also radically change the scenario of your own life, and therefore fate.
