Many men suffer, unable to understand feminine logic, and women with their way of thinking seem to them to be aliens from another planet. At the same time, few people think about the fact that the male logical system in the same way may seem strange and incomprehensible to women. In fact, every woman is able to understand masculine logic if she knows how masculine thinking is built, and what are its features.
Instructions
Step 1
To successfully achieve mutual understanding with a man and for effective communication, a woman should understand how to communicate with a man, taking into account his habits, as well as how a man reacts to women's mistakes in communication. Finally, it is important to understand what communication strategy to develop in order to achieve maximum mutual understanding.
Step 2
When talking with a man, remember that it is very important for men to see the purpose of the conversation. They do not consider communication without a goal important - they need to know what you want from them. Otherwise, the man is lost in a purposeless, in his opinion, conversation. Offer the man a specific and clear topic of conversation.
Step 3
Often, women formulate the topic of conversation vaguely and vaguely, but in communicating with a man, such formulations will be meaningless - set the exact wording of the topic for conversation, which will give the partner certain guidelines and allow you to control the situation. Men, unlike women, are goal-oriented, not process-oriented. Always remember that a man needs constructive information and constructive conversation.
Step 4
Ask the man detailed questions, posed as accurately as possible. This will make it more likely that you will receive a detailed answer. Never talk with a man in hints - he will not understand them, and the inability to understand what you want from him will cause irritation. Express your opinion openly and definitely.
Step 5
If a man is thinking and does not talk to you, do not demand an immediate reaction from him - unlike women, men think silently. A woman can think out loud, voicing ideas that appear in her head, but a man is much more accustomed to thinking about any ideas within himself, and only then, after weighing all the pros and cons, to voice the decision. A man is focused on the final decision - that is why it is so important for him to seriously and thoroughly think about something without someone else's interference.
Step 6
Do not forget that men in modern society have a great social responsibility, and therefore every man strives to create a certain image of a strong and confident successful leader. When communicating with a man, in no case destroy this image - otherwise, you risk destroying the man's self-awareness and his sense of his own worth.
Step 7
As often as possible, confirm his importance and note that he is successful, which means that he has taken place as a person. This will help the man to develop in the future, which is possible only with real female support and understanding.
