If a gambling addict appeared in the family, then a big trouble settled with him. And this is not only due to the fact that money and valuables are gradually disappearing. Before our eyes, a dear person disappears, he more and more belongs to the game. And this is no longer a joy to him. How do you deal with this grief?
It is necessary
patience and desire
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, make sure that you are firmly committed to "quitting" the game. If this is not the case, then you can skip reading further point # 1.
Step 2
Become aware of your illness. It is the disease that is included in the International Classification of Diseases. It is necessary to say clearly, without any allegories: “I am a gambling addict. I am sick. I want to be treated."
Step 3
Further, you must clearly realize that no fortune tellers, sorcerers, sorcerers and wizards will help you. Gambling addiction is not damage or evil eye. Charlatans will only gut your pocket completely. It is necessary to understand that the treatment of gambling addiction should take place in a complex where at least three people are involved - a patient, a doctor and a loved one.
Step 4
Of course, you cannot do without the help of an experienced specialist. How do you know that the doctor you see is a good specialist? First of all, he will not promise mountains of gold, but will warn that there is a lot of work ahead. He will also be sure to look for the causes of gambling addiction. After all, it does not arise out of nowhere and for everyone. Any addiction is a departure from reality. This is what the doctor will help you find out.
Step 5
The specialist will prescribe a therapy that you will need to follow closely. This can be group therapy or one-to-one. You may be prescribed some medication. At this moment, the support of loved ones is required.
Step 6
After therapy, you must remember that there are no former gambling addicts. Do not under any circumstances provoke yourself to relapse, and do not even play cards! Also remember that an addict may find a new object of desire. To prevent a gambling addict from turning into an alcoholic, for example, think about what can bring you joy in real life.
