Sometimes we want to attract as much attention to ourselves as possible, and sometimes, on the contrary, we want to become an “invisible man”. And in such cases, the question of how to be invisible to others becomes extremely relevant.
Instructions
Step 1
The first thing that attracts the attention of others is the person's appearance. Therefore, in order to "merge with the landscape", it is necessary to exclude everything for which the eye "clings". Bright clothes or accessories, spectacular hairstyles, manicure, cosmetics, jewelry - all this must be forgotten. The ideal option is clothing of average quality, discreet colors (gray, dark blue, brown), not emphasizing the figure. For example, a little baggy jeans and a soft solid color pullover plus neutral shoes. You can hide a bright hair color or a stylish haircut under a dark knitted hat by pulling it slightly over your forehead. Such a "fancy dress" is quite enough to get lost in the crowd - unless, of course, you will attract attention with your behavior.
Step 2
Do not make sudden movements, do not make loud noises, and try not to reflect emotions on your face. Loud laughter, expressive speech, active facial expressions, sweeping gestures - all this also attracts attention.
Step 3
Typically, people pay attention to those who are "open to the world" - and if you show complete disinterest, you are likely to be reciprocated. Demonstrate immersion in yourself: brisk gait, head slightly lowered, look under your feet. Indoors, sit in a corner or against a wall, while you can immerse yourself in a book or PDA.
Step 4
If you need to communicate with people, be passive. Do not look at the interlocutor, do not show initiative in the conversation. At the same time, you should not emphatically "leave the conversation" - monotonously assent, agree in monosyllables, shrug your shoulders. In this case, your behavior will not cause irritation - but neither will the desire to continue communication. And it is unlikely that your interlocutor will be able to remember you in a day or two.