A person is able to achieve in his life almost everything he wants. It is important to understand the adequacy of your claims and believe in ultimate success. In addition, you need to maintain a positive attitude and accept yourself as you are.
Every normal person wants everything in his life to come true and everything worked out. At the same time, each of us has our own aspirations and dreams. For some it is enough to have a job with earnings, a family and the opportunity to have a vacation abroad once a year, while someone wants to travel around the world and earn tens of millions of dollars.
At the moment, there are many methods that allow you to achieve your goal, get material benefits, attract good luck into your life, and so on. Many people know methods for visualization, meditation to improve the quality of life. For some reason, most of the methods do not work, or give a short-term result. There are basic points to consider. Then you can achieve the goal, regardless of its scale.
Magnet effect
There is an ancient saying "What's inside is outside". If we talk about a person and his environment, the events that happen to him, then we can conclude - as we feel inside ourselves, then it happens with us in life, such people surround us.
If inside you feel constraint, self-doubt, the outside world will provide an opportunity to find out about this through the circumstances - someone will deceive, call names, step on your feet. When a person feels confident and benevolent, such people are drawn to him, situations happen that make it possible to make sure that a positive attitude to life is the path to success.
Decide on desires
Most people just don't know what happiness means to them. If the magic Jin asked them what three wishes to fulfill, they would think for a long time and would not be able to give a clear and succinct answer. That is, almost all of us will not be able to clearly formulate for ourselves the concept of personal happiness.
To fill this gap, it is tedious to sit down and calmly write on a piece of paper what you would like to receive in the near future. It can be a material thing, an attitude, a change in appearance, and much more. The main thing is to be honest with yourself.
Priority of desires
When the list is ready, you can move on to priorities in your desires. All desires must be sorted out according to their importance and longevity. It will turn out to be a kind of pyramid, moving from the base to the top of which, we strive for perfection, happiness.
For example, let's say you want to buy a car. At the same time, you have a desire to make money, find a good job, so that you have more free time. It turns out that the purchase is the top of the pyramid, and a new job, money, study for a license - these are all steps.
Acceptance of oneself as it is, adequacy of the desired to existing reality
Unfortunately, many of us do not love ourselves, do not accept who we really are. This is a brake on the way to the realization of the plan. Others dream about things that are unlikely to happen. For example, to become the richest person in the world or visit Jupiter. Desires should be close and real.
As they are realized, the level of claims grows, the imaginary pyramid increases.
So, we know what we want, set priorities, accept ourselves, maintain a positive attitude towards life and those around us, our desires are adequate. It remains to imagine how all this is being done. It is extremely important here to make yourself feel as if everything has already happened - you are eating in a new car and get satisfaction from the process. The most important thing is emotions and sensations. It is they who will help to realize the conceived.
This applies to all spheres of life, up to interpersonal relationships. We do not know our capabilities well, but they have no boundaries!
