The ability to speak - to transmit thoughts through speech - this is the main feature that distinguishes a person from an animal. This gift has helped humanity to achieve everything that we have now. However, everyone in his life noticed that people talk in different ways: some can be listened to for hours, others are completely impossible to listen to, you want to either close your ears or just run away. In order to learn how to speak correctly and beautifully, you can use the following tips.
Instructions
Step 1
First, you must completely eliminate profanity from your speech. Even if you think that your speech sounds adequate, the interlocutor may think differently and instead of getting into the essence, he filters your words.
Step 2
Try to be as less pretentious and arrogant as possible when you talk. Otherwise, such behavior will only lead to the fact that everyone around you will turn away from you. Your speech should be simple and understandable to the interlocutor, it should not belittle him or cause irritation.
Step 3
Almost everyone uses parasitic words. Sometimes we ourselves do not notice how often we use such words (for example, here, this, that, well, that means, and so on), they can significantly spoil your speech. It is possible to get rid of such a bad habit, but at the same time it will be very difficult. First, record what you usually say on tape and listen to yourself. When you interact with other people, watch how they speak, try to note to yourself which parasitic words they use. Over time, you will learn to watch not only others, but also yourself. Instead of filling in the pause with the phrase "Ooh," it is best to remain silent.
Step 4
Make sure to stress the words correctly. You may not be at all embarrassed by the fact that you pronounce the words incorrectly, but for other people this can say a lot about you, and to be precise, it can spoil the impression.
Step 5
Be laconic, express your thoughts clearly and clearly, without breaking up empty conversations. In the event that you constantly talk too much, but also do not give any information, then soon any person will be bored talking with you.
Step 6
Watch your speech and do not be offended if others correct you. This is only beneficial.
