Confidence is the psychological side of a person's personality. It is thanks to her that people form certain beliefs and views on certain situations. However, not everyone has this quality. So how do you recognize an insecure person?
Instructions
Step 1
You can even recognize an insecure person from afar. To do this, you should pay attention to his gait. Insecure people shyly take short steps, while they often shuffle their feet and bend their knees. One gets the impression that the legs themselves lead such a person to a place where he has no desire to go at all.
Step 2
Posture can also tell a lot about a person. Slouching and drooping shoulders are signs of insecurity. If the gait can be imitated, then such a number will not work with posture, because it is quite difficult to keep your shoulders straightened for a long time out of habit. Tense back muscles will only make you feel more insecure.
Step 3
Lack of hand control also betrays insecurity. If a person begins, roughly speaking, to fumble and touch everything that is at his fingertips, then he clearly feels ill at ease.
Step 4
When talking to a person, pay attention to where their gaze is directed. Confident people never look away. Insecure, on the contrary, cannot direct their gaze to the person with whom they are talking. Often they lower their heads down, while during the whole conversation, they touch their hair and face every now and then. Of course, insecurity isn't always the reason for this behavior. It is also possible that the interlocutor is not at all interested in the topic of your conversation and he is trying in every possible way to distract himself.
Step 5
Uncertainty can also be recognized by the distance between people talking. A confident person is not afraid of the fact that the interlocutor is located at a fairly short distance. Insecure, on the contrary, when talking, try to keep a certain distance and in every possible way avoid bodily contact with a person. Of course, according to this criterion, you do not need to strictly judge people, because everyone has a different comfort zone.
Step 6
And, of course, it's worth mentioning sign language. Insecure people often take closed poses during a conversation, for example, crossing their arms over their chest. As for a confident person, he shows with his whole body his openness and a positive attitude to the conversation.
