No one really knows what willpower is: is it a separate quality or just a set of parameters such as virtue and good motivation. But we all quite often face the problem when willpower refuses to work.
Why do you need willpower?
For example, he may not respond to comments about a slightly saggy stomach, lack of order in his house, or unwillingness to get up before 12 p.m. But if a man catches fire with an idea, it will be impossible to stop him. The will of a man who longs for something is harder than steel.
More often he will be guided by the word "must" than "I want". Many stereotypes are so deeply ingrained in the mind that a woman no longer realizes: after all, this requires some kind of will. For example, hair removal or childbirth. No man would do that. And women voluntarily agree and do not boast afterwards.
What is the scope of willpower?
Often, such concentration is achieved not by the achievements of the representative of the stronger sex himself, but by the willingness of a woman nearby (it does not matter if it is a mother, grandmother or wife) to create suitable conditions for translating the goal into life.
Home, work, children, older relatives, preparing a matinee in kindergarten … Women are accustomed to multitasking, and it is very difficult for them to direct all their efforts to any one action. This is possible in the short term, but the woman is not enough for a long time. Women who strive to recover from a serious illness as soon as possible demonstrate a special will, since they have a lot of things to do that are not expected.
What style of behavior does he choose if willpower has given weakness?
The best quality of men is the ability to accept failures of willpower as not a failure or self-criticism. After all, the main task is not to avoid mistakes, but to continue moving in the right direction.
Even the smallest oversight is perceived as a complete lack of willpower, which does not stimulate you to continue to achieve what you want. Instead, women often give up and then reproach themselves even more. Instead, you should think: “Yes, now I gave up the slack, but it's not scary. I'm doing everything right."
