The desire to penetrate into the essence of the thoughts of other people in a way imperceptible to them excites the minds of millions of people. At one time, the famous psychologist Wolf Messing even performed in public with numbers, where he guessed assignments written by someone on a piece of paper and hidden from him. The ability to read minds is often entangled in mystery, is ranked among the occult sciences or parapsychology. This is a misconception because psychologists "read minds" by observing visible behavioral responses.
It is necessary
To develop the ability to see right through people, you will need observation and patience, as well as a little knowledge of how to interpret various gestures and behavioral reactions
Instructions
Step 1
Develop observation, analyze what you see. No wonder there is a saying "Psychologists have fun by watching." Boring conferences, uninteresting events and parties, leisurely walks in the park, movies … Life gives you so many opportunities to develop your powers of observation! Look at people, try to understand their reactions, try to figure out their lifestyle and way of thinking based on a short observation. This will help develop discernment.
Step 2
Learn the alphabet of gestures. There are many books on the interpretation of gestures. Allan Pease writes especially well on this subject. Thanks to these books, you can learn to recognize lies, see some hidden intentions, fleeting reactions that a person is trying to hide.
Step 3
Read books on psychoanalysis. Carl Jung, Sigmund Freud, Alfred Adler, Karen Horney and many other psychologists have devoted many works to trying to understand the unconscious manifestations of man. These manifestations in different ways break through into human behavior, you just need to learn how to interpret them.
Step 4
Learn how to include test questions. After you practice observing, recognizing gestures, and interpreting slips of the tongue, you can learn to incorporate tests into speech. For example, people usually answer common questions in a way that betrays their intentions. For example, if you ask a man: "Which girls are created for marriage and which are not?", He will answer what is important in the future wife for him. After that, you don't have to ask who exactly he wants to marry, everything will be clear. And this is not the only test technique.
