Many women do not consider themselves sexy. But sexuality is not external data, but how a woman feels in contact with the world. And sexuality, like any sensation, can be developed in oneself.
Every woman is sexy, but not everyone can show it properly. There are very few women who are sexually inherent literally from birth. In the rest, it develops with experience, gradually. As a woman gets to know herself, her sensual and emotional sides, she becomes more self-confident and sexier. That is why mature women are often perceived as sexier than young girls.
If you have opened this article, it means that you do not feel sexy or unhappy with the degree of manifestation of this sexuality in you. In this regard, we propose not to waste time assessing your sexuality and go straight to the practical techniques designed to help you develop and manifest your natural sexuality as vividly as possible.
1. Develop sensuality
Feelings are where sexuality begins. Touch yourself, listen to the sensations. How do you feel at the point of contact? Become aware of every sensation: warmth, pressure, soft fingers. Focus all your attention on the point of contact. What emotions do you associate with this feeling, what emotions are you experiencing at the moment?
Do the same when your partner touches you. Immerse yourself fully in the sensation of his touch.
2. Study your physiology
25% of women never experience an orgasm in their lives. To avoid falling into this category, study not only your body for erogenous zones, but also articles and books on female anatomy. This will help you understand your body better.
3. Practice erotic fantasies
Select an object. It could be a physically attractive coworker or your favorite actor, it doesn't matter. Imagine yourself having sex with him. What his skin feels like. How he behaves in bed, whether he is aggressive or possibly gentle. Imagine how his body looks like, how he touches you, how you would feel when these touches.
Sexual fantasies help to liberate and develop sensuality in oneself.
4. Work to increase libido
There are special practices for this. A properly selected menu will also help you, since there are specific products responsible for sexual desire.
5. Flirt
Of course, no one is referring to the seeking gaze that screams "well, pay attention to me!" Despair is by no means an attractive trait. When a woman has a regular sexual partner, she doesn't have to try to be sexy to other men. If a woman is alone, she should learn to respond to male attention. Many of us do not do this, because we consider such behavior indecent, and coquetry is something dirty and defiant. To begin with, try to get rid of these internal barriers by starting to respond favorably to the attention from men. If this does not work, seek help from a psychologist, he will help you deal with internal barriers.
6. Admire yourself
When looking at yourself in the mirror, don't berate yourself for a belly crease or stretch marks. Take it for granted. Try to understand that a man, by and large, will not give a damn about these minor flaws of yours, and relax. Think that you are beautiful and that many women dream of a body like yours. Sometimes comparisons can be good for you.
7. Have sex more often
Even sex without love has value. Yes, even if he does not give any enchanting emotions, carnal pleasure is also a lot. Take care of your body and give it what it needs. Don't be shy about the fact that women need sex too. To deny this is a relic of the past. Enjoy life in all forms, including this one.
