What if you are called a bore? Agree, not the most pleasant characteristic that you ever want to hear, because it says that a person is devoid of imagination and acts only according to logic. It is believed that such a person gets on everyone's nerves, constantly being in a state of dissatisfaction with something or someone.
You can become a bore without even noticing it. And this definitely needs to be corrected, since only a positive person can be truly happy.
Boredom and boredom often go hand in hand. Therefore, for any desire to have fun from the heart - rejoice, because all is not lost yet.
Another indicator of boringness is obsession. In this case, the interlocutor stubbornly speaks only on one topic and does not allow others to speak, imposing only his own opinion.
In order not to be considered a bore, you need to remember some rules. First, know that your problems are rarely of interest to anyone, unless, of course, these are the closest people. When answering the question "How are you?", You do not need to list all the sorrows or unnecessary facts, try to answer briefly and, if possible, with humor.
It happens that the interlocutor is not in the mood for communication - neither with you, nor with anyone else. In this case, you do not need to impose and try, by all means, to find a common topic for conversation. Don't waste your time, maybe an interesting conversation will take place some other time.
Another problem of nerds is the inability to stop in time. A simple example: you were asked a question, and instead of answering briefly and to the point, you delve into the topic so deeply that you get a lecture with which the interlocutor wants to escape in 5 or 10 minutes.
Don't take information too seriously. In some situations, you need to respond with a touch of humor, which will demonstrate a good mood and a positive attitude with which you communicate. But do not go too far - it is not recommended to react with laughter to all situations. This will tell not about positivity, but about frivolity.
If something is not clear during a conversation, do not rush to demand explanations and constantly ask again. Try to get the answer to the question of interest during the conversation, without interrupting the narrator. There will be no harm from one question, but if they pour in one after another, it will infuriate anyone.
Another quality, although not entirely boring, but still no less repulsive to people is bragging. Don't brag about your accomplishments, especially making fun of other people's shortcomings. During a conversation, remember that a person not only wants to hear something, but also seeks to contribute - to express what he is interested in or what worries him. Respect each other for a good and heart-warming conversation.
Think positively, dilute seriousness with funny and sometimes moderately stupid things, give the opportunity to speak out to other participants in the conversation and then you will definitely be known not as a bore, but exclusively as the soul of the company.
