Well-developed sociability has a positive effect on our life. A person who communicates a lot and successfully, according to our society, is successful and attractive to other people. This is the psychology of society, and if you want to succeed and take a certain place in it, you need to develop sociability.
Instructions
Step 1
Above all, develop a sense of humor. A person who knows how to joke kindly so that everyone likes it is a rarity. Such people are very valuable in any company. Nobody obliges you to be a clown by order, but it is simply necessary to be able to insert a couple of jokes, naturally, suitable for the place and situation.
Step 2
Broaden your horizons. It is not necessary to read the entire Soviet encyclopedia, but you must be able to speak on various topics, and if not, then precisely maintain a dialogue. Cleanse your speech from parasitic words and obscene language, in order to be listened to, you need to speak cleanly and clearly.
Step 3
Self-confidence is required to apply the above qualities. Often people begin to doubt themselves, that their words will be adequately heard and understood, they turn on an internal dialogue - a conversation with oneself. Know how to turn off the internal dialogue - either by an effort of will, or by special exercises that you will do alone with yourself - for example, verbally presenting all the thoughts that are in your head. Once you turn off internal dialogue, it will be much easier for you to communicate.
Step 4
In each interlocutor with whom you communicate, look for and find something that interests you. There are no absolutely uninteresting people, each person has some peculiarity that is not peculiar to others. Seek, find her and show genuine interest, and so that the person sees it. Listen carefully to the person.
