Almost everyone makes mistakes in life, both large and small. It's good if at this moment the people around you support you. But there are situations when they create a wall of alienation and misunderstanding between you.
Where to start working on bugs
Before you start trying to regain the favor of friends, family and friends, you need to try to find out the reasons for your forced loneliness. The problem can be hidden in your character, behavior, manner of speaking and building relationships with other people. If you have maintained a neutral relationship with at least one person, try asking him what exactly he thinks turns people away from you.
If you have no one to discuss such a topic with at all, try to scroll through the most memorable conflict dialogues in your head. Try to objectively assess your cues and behavior. If you really notice something repulsive in your way of speaking, try to work on it. Scroll in your head not only those dialogues that really happened, but also come up with others. This conversation with your inner opponent will help you better understand what exactly people might not like about communicating with you.
If no one wants to help you
The problem may lie not only in the way you communicate. If you are having serious difficulties in life, people may turn their backs on you so as not to try to help you. In this case, there is practically nothing you can do about the situation. Serious problems in life have repeatedly become the cause of discord, even between loved ones.
It is much more difficult to solve the problem when the cause of the disorder is some kind of psychopathology (alcoholism, autism, or even depression). In this case, you need to at least try to get rid of your illness yourself. Only after this can one count on the return of the goodwill of his family and friends. If you're having a hard time dealing with this alone, don't hesitate to ask for help. Relatives, seeing that you are trying to solve a problem, will not refuse to help you.
The cause of the discord could be some unpleasant act or mistake you committed. In this case, you need to try to make amends, and, if possible, fix everything. If your actions have caused harm to someone close to you, first of all you should apologize and offer your maximum help in solving the problem that has arisen.
If you want to improve relationships with loved ones, do not expect them to take the first steps towards you. Try to make peace with others yourself, even if the conversation is difficult for you. Shyness can get in the way of solving this problem. If these people were really close to you, they will definitely be imbued with your desire to make peace or make amends.
