Many people want to be appreciated and respected. This does not happen by chance, because a respected person feels more comfortable in society, and there are much fewer problems in his life than someone who is used to not paying attention to.
Instructions
Step 1
Before you start winning everyone's respect, think about who you are in society at the moment. Do people turn to you for advice, do people listen to your opinion? If not, try to find the reason for this: it can consist both in your alienation from people, and in the fact that you are perceived as not strong and wise enough.
Step 2
Imagine and try to imagine what people could respect you for. Draw a mental picture of your future self: a strong, confident, reasonable person. This image should be fixed in your head, and only after this happens, serious changes can begin to occur in your life.
Step 3
Try to think for yourself, read more and do not skip informational programs. It is not at all necessary that you understand all areas, but it is a good idea to become a professional in several areas. People who know something well are treated with respect.
Step 4
In order to gain respect from others, become a strong personality, that is, learn to cope with difficulties and get out of difficult situations with dignity. Do not be afraid to part with the past and change your point of view - only strong people know how to admit their mistakes. Think about what is most important to you in life, develop a kind of code and strictly follow it.
Step 5
Don't be lazy. Work and be on the move. However, this does not mean at all that you should be in a hurry somewhere: you must always remain calm, regardless of whether you are in a hurry or not. People who know how to control their emotions are respected because they seem wise.
Step 6
And lastly, do not overdo it in your desire to win someone's respect, otherwise you risk becoming a slave to your idea, in addition, becoming dependent on society, its desires and ideals. And addicted people, as you know, are not respected.
