Mutual respect should be present in a relationship even before it gets into anything more serious than the first date. Respect is like cleanliness in a house - it needs to be maintained all the time.
Necessary
Self-esteem
Instructions
Step 1
If he never respected you, then ask yourself, what did you both find in this relationship? Perhaps he was looking for someone to push around, and you were desperate? Everything has changed for you, you want respect, but can your partner give it if he was looking not for a strong woman in you, but for someone timid and dependent? He will suppress you, and demand to return to the previous pattern of behavior. All you can do in such a situation is to regain your self-esteem - to get away from it.
Step 2
If your husband respected you before marriage, but in marriage has become dismissive of you, look first and see if something has changed in you? If before the wedding you kept yourself in shape, dressed well, looked after yourself, now do you continue to monitor your appearance in the same way, or have you given up on him?
Step 3
Don't be petty. There is nothing more annoying than a person who is always whining over mere trifles. Discuss what is really important to you, not everyday problems that are not worth a damn. Don't you like that it doesn't cover the tube of paste? This is not a reason to start your morning with comments on this matter. Buy yourself another tube, it's much easier than finding another man.
Step 4
Be a friend and advisor to your man. Let him make important decisions himself, but express your opinion on the problem.
Step 5
Don't grumble at him. It is enough to express your opinion once, and not repeat it for hours. He will respect you more when he is convinced that you are right. But any correct thought will fade if you repeat about it over and over again. He is more likely to get angry with you and will look in you for the reason for his failure, and not in his stubbornness.
Step 6
Maintain control over your emotions. The fact that you are a woman does not mean that you are unable to control yourself.
Step 7
Keep your promises, even if they are about the time of your date. Are you seriously convinced that you can respect someone who is constantly late? And what can we say about who fails in more serious matters.
Step 8
Maintain financial independence from him. Be a self-sufficient woman. If a man does not see you as an equal partner who has his own value, his life, his interests, then, of course, he will offer you a different role in his life. For example, the ornamental sticky fish. What respect is there!
Step 9
Do not tolerate neglect from him. If you allow yourself to be pushed around, then it is possible with you. He can make mistakes, but you shouldn't turn a blind eye to them.
Step 10
Don't command him! Do not criticize him in the presence of family, colleagues, friends, do not make fun of him. You can't win someone's respect by trampling their self-esteem in the mud.
