Alas, there are troubles that a person simply cannot fix - he can only survive them. In those moments when grief overwhelms a person with his head, sometimes there is only one hope - that time can dull the pain.
Forget and heal
"Time cure" is by no means an empty hope, and scientists have been able to prove it. This process is similar to the tightening of the grooves "carved" in the human brain. The more people think about something, the deeper such a groove is "imprinted", but when they forget, it gradually begins to smooth out. Think of this process as treating a scratch: if you continually injure your skin, it will not become healthy, but if you leave it alone for a while, the scratch will heal.
It is very important for the person to switch to other things. The more you think about what is hurting you, the longer the time-curing process will take. Distraction is difficult, but necessary.
In some clinics, special sleep treatments were given. People who experienced severe grief fell asleep for 1-2 weeks, and during this time specially trained personnel looked after them. After such treatment, the grief was not completely forgotten, but it seemed very distant, as if tragic events happened many years ago. This means that time can really heal, you just need to use it correctly.
Healing with a new life
No matter how strange it may seem in moments of grief, life continues to go on as usual. Time puts everything in its place and forces a person to adapt to constantly changing circumstances. More and more new worries require attention, and over time it is possible to forget about what happened, and later painful memories are completely erased and disappear from life.
Unfortunately, there is no telling how long you will need. So, sometimes a painful parting is forgotten in six months thanks to a new, brighter love, and sometimes it remains for decades.
Do not discount the fact that with age, a person becomes wiser and more experienced. The world around him changes, and he himself changes. Having met a new love, he can be grateful to the former partner for the breakup, since from the height of his experience he can already understand that the previous union had no chance. Having found a new job, you can understand that dismissal, which seemed like a disaster, was a blessing.
Wounds caused by the death of loved ones are the most difficult to heal. But over time, no matter how scary and blasphemous it may sound in moments of grief, a person realizes that life is not eternal, and for each comes his own time. In place of the dead people come small children, who still have a lot of joy and laughter ahead. There comes a time when this is what becomes important. Then the person lets go of loved ones in his soul, and time ends the treatment.
