When a person allows himself to behave disrespectfully and cheekily in dealing with unfamiliar people, his behavior is called familiar. Such a manner is a sign of bad taste and is completely unacceptable in society.
Instructions
Step 1
The term "familiarity" has Latin roots and in direct translation sounds like "family" or "close". Despite the harmless meaning of these words, familiar behavior is considered a flaw and is frowned upon in any community. It is necessary to distinguish ease and relaxedness from obsessive and rude communication, which many often allow themselves in relation to elders or to people with whom they are not very familiar. Arrogance and rudeness can also be manifested in a work environment, when the boss addresses subordinates in a humiliating and cheeky tone.
Step 2
Often, behind a familiar demeanor, people try to hide self-doubt and suppress internal complexes. This cannot be an excuse, everyone should understand that a tactless and impolite attitude offends the interlocutor and causes him psychological trauma. Familiarity is often characteristic of the younger generation, an attempt to gain popularity with the opposite sex is often accompanied by inappropriate statements and an unacceptable tone in an attempt to get to know each other better.
Step 3
Sometimes you can see how famous and popular people suffer from the obsession of completely unfamiliar personalities, seeking to demonstrate their acquaintance with them by trying to impose communication. What is allowed in relationships with close friends can become completely unacceptable in conversation with others. A pat on the shoulder, dirty jokes, misrepresentation of a name, and an attempt to unceremoniously impose friendship are all signs of familiar behavior. A completely inappropriate reference to "you" to an older person, woman or girl also falls under this concept. This should also include non-business communication in a work environment. Most often, young girls suffer from this behavior, while falling into awkward and delicate situations. It is not uncommon to see examples of familiarity towards salespeople and service workers. A well-mannered person will treat a representative of any profession with respect and address “you” in conversation.
Step 4
If the behavior of the interlocutor evokes an association with the word "familiarity", you should not keep the conversation in such a tone. By ignoring the situation, you can thereby give tacit consent to continue contact in a similar tone. Rejection of such a tone can be expressed by facial expressions or intonation of the voice, go to a more formal communication. In the absence of a result, it is better to lower your voice so as not to attract the attention of others, to make a remark and express your dissatisfaction.