If you don't love your pregnant wife, you have several options for dealing with this problem. But besides yourself, no one can make the right choice.
Instructions
Step 1
Think. First of all, about the child. Are you really ready to give up life with your baby when he is born? If you don't love his mom, this is not a reason to leave. You can stay in a couple for the sake of the baby, because he needs the care and guardianship of both parents. If you have an even and normal relationship with your expectant mother, there is nothing wrong with living together and without love. It is possible that when the child is born, you will look at his mother with completely different eyes.
Step 2
Live separately. One of the best ways to test your feelings is to break up for a while. It is possible that due to such big changes in life as the pregnancy of your spouse, it only seems to you that you do not have love. Live separately for a while. In order not to hurt your wife too much, you can simply refer to a business trip. Test your senses. If you really do not care about your spouse, she does not cause any emotions in you, then it may be worth divorcing. If you do not stop thinking about this woman, worry about her and miss her, do not write it off as a banal habit. This is love. The desire to care, protect and preserve is not a habit and affection, but a really strong and deep feeling.
Step 3
Get divorced. If your relationship is full of scandals and reproaches, and love has not lived in your family for a long time, the child will not fix it. Divorce your wife to give a new and better chance not only for yourself, but for her as well. Divorce does not in any way relieve you of parenting. The future baby is not to blame for the fact that your personal relationship with his mother has failed. At the end of the day, caring for a child can unite you in the future. When divorcing a pregnant wife, treat her with respect and consideration. After all, she carries your baby under her heart, and this imposes obligations on you - to look after and take care of this woman, even if there is no love.
Step 4
To live on. It is trite, but many families live even when there is no love between spouses. If your wife is pregnant and you don’t love her at all, this is not a reason to get divorced. Think about what marriage gives you and what divorce does. Usually the latter takes a lot of energy and nerves. It is possible that a measured and familiar life is a much more attractive option than being unknown after a divorce. Having a child in a couple where there is no love can be salvation. After all, caring for a tiny baby can bring parents together in a great way.
