When communication takes place, a person usually observes the interlocutor: how he stands or how he sits, how he looks, whether he is doing something at the time of the conversation. But to have a complete picture of who is in front of you, it is worth "watching" with your ears. The way a person speaks, the manner of his communication can tell a lot about the interlocutor.
Experts believe that the way a person speaks to you can make a huge difference in the process of interaction. The tone of voice is able to reflect the inner state of the interlocutor, showing others what is really happening in him at this moment, not only in his head, but also in his soul.
Boring, monotonous voice
If they talk to you in a monotonous, not tinged with any emotions, boring voice - in front of you, most likely, a very closed person who has many unresolved problems that weigh him down and about which he constantly thinks.
Such people are not prone to close relationships, it is difficult for them to enter into dialogue with someone, especially with a stranger. It is difficult with such people, because it is impossible to even guess what the person is really thinking about and what emotions he is experiencing.
Sweet and gentle voice
When you are talking to a woman who has a very high, soft sweet, aspirated voice, be careful. The so-called "childish" voice belongs usually to rather aggressive individuals who are hostile to others. If she stops liking something from what you say, the timbre of her voice will gradually change and decrease. As a result, you may not hear tender words that are pleasant to your ear, but aggressive cries.
Timbre change
If the timbre of the voice of the interlocutor (man or woman) begins to change from low to high - be careful. Such a change in tone may indicate that there is an insidious liar in front of you.
Dangerous, hostile voice
When the interlocutor tries to talk a lot, aggressively, with attacks on both you and the whole world, you should not keep a conversation with him. You may be drawn into the same aggression, which will cause you to start responding in the same tone.
Sometimes a person does not even hear that there is hatred in his voice for the whole world, and if you start responding to him in the same way, the interlocutor may be very surprised that you started attacking him.
An aggressive voice can also correspond to less self-confident people who want to draw special attention to themselves in this way.
If a person's voice is naturally loud, and he additionally enhances it and tries to speak louder and louder in order to shout out to everyone around and show his displeasure with the whole world, it is better not to answer him at all and, if possible, turn off the conversation, and then leave.
Quiet voice
When a person speaks too quietly (unless it is associated with some kind of illness), most likely, he does not have a very good opinion of himself and he lacks confidence. A person with a quiet voice does not feel respect for himself, suffers from his own shyness, low self-esteem, but at the same time can be quite aggressive. Such passive aggression is used by a person in order to force the interlocutor to listen carefully to him, constantly ask again, listen attentively to every word. At the same time, the quiet ones will never show their true feelings and emotions in a conversation.
Speaking too fast
If a person speaks too fast, they are most likely in a state of overexcitement, trying to do a lot of things at once. It can be very difficult to understand such a person. For the interlocutor, a person chattering incessantly begins to pose a danger.
Typically, people who speak very quickly, like people with low voices, can have problems with self-esteem and self-esteem, and by using fast speech they attract additional attention to themselves.
Speaking too slow
When a person speaks so slowly that you can already forget what the conversation is about at all, in front of you is a person completely immersed in himself, for whom it may not matter at all whether you are listening to her or not. Even if you try to turn the conversation to another topic or interrupt such a speech, most likely the person will not hear you at all. But remember that such people can be dangerous in that there are no other people's secrets and secrets for them, and they are not always ready to tell the truth.
