Do not think that only wizards or telepaths can read the thoughts in another person's head. Sometimes, what your interlocutor thinks can be told by the language of gestures, facial expressions, pos. This language is even more informative because it is practically uncontrollable. A person's words can be deceiving, but his unconscious gestures are not. If you learn to guess the thoughts of your interlocutor, it will be much easier for you to find a common language and maintain a conversation with any opponent.
Instructions
Step 1
In many books on psychology, authors talk about what gestures and postures can talk about. To understand the mood and attitude towards you and your words, just take a close look at the behavior of your interlocutor. If the palms of his hands are open and lie calmly on the surface of the table or while standing, he keeps them open towards you, then this is a good sign - they trust you.
Step 2
The highest degree of confidence in the man sitting opposite you can mean a jacket taken off or unbuttoned, a comfortable position. At the same time, he can even sit, leaning back in a chair and throwing one leg over the other. The fact that the person sitting opposite has confidence in you will be shown by the arms bent at the elbows and the palms of the hands with fingers closed in a "dome" at the level of the mouth. This can sometimes mean complacency and pride in yourself.
Step 3
In the event that a person does not trust you or your words, if he fancies a latent threat and an imminent conflict in them, his palms will be clenched into fists. At the same time, he can also take a protective pose with his arms crossed on his chest.
Step 4
The fact that he is trying to figure out your intentions or find out what kind of person you are will be said by the posture when he listens to you, resting his head on his hand. His critical attitude is signaled by a gesture when the chin rests on the thumb, the index finger is extended along the cheek, and the rest are bent at the level of the mouth and cover it. If his assessment is positive, he will sit closer to you, on the end of a chair, resting his elbows on his knees and his arms hanging freely. The fact that he is interested and attentively listening to you will be indicated by his head tilted to his shoulder.
Step 5
If a person often covers his mouth with his hand during a conversation, then this can be either a manifestation of isolation, or a desire to hide something or lie. Often such a gesture follows an inadvertently spoken word that escaped involuntarily. In the event that your words cause embarrassment to the interlocutor, he begins to scratch his hair, men - also his beard.
Step 6
The ability to read the thoughts of the interlocutor will be useful not only for those whose work is related to people, but also for any person in everyday life. Such skills can greatly facilitate communication and understanding, they will allow you to quickly reach consensus and prevent conflict situations.
