There are many theories about fate. Someone thinks that everything is already predetermined, and a person cannot change his world. Others are constantly looking for a way to brighten their existence. But chances are good that the truth lies somewhere between two opposing theories.
Instructions
Step 1
A person is born under certain conditions, he is not able to change this. Everyone has a place of birth, parents or people who replace them, a social circle and certain living conditions. Someone was lucky to be born into a family of millionaires, others came into the world surrounded by alcoholics. But it is upbringing and the first months of life that shape the view of the world, help to learn to see the environment in a certain way. For example, a wealthy person is easy about money, does not worry about the future, he is sure that tomorrow everything will be fine. Poor people cannot always guarantee that tomorrow there will be food and a place to sleep, their opinions about funds differ very much.
Step 2
In childhood, a person comprehends the basic sciences. But it is not only education that is important, but the ability to set goals and achieve them. People are often lazy to do something, do not try to stand out and live somehow differently. Society condemns everyone who does something in their own way. But there are people who decide to live differently, they make the decision to become better and begin to put it into practice. Usually the creation of a large business, the accumulation of wealth, a change in the place of life is preceded by a lot of work, and only an aspiring person can go this way. It turns out that you can change your life, but it's not easy, you will need to study, work and believe.
Step 3
At a young age, certain reactions to the world are laid. People at this time choose the type of behavior, someone lives in negativity, fear and experiences. Others choose joy, lightness, and acceptance. It depends on a personal decision, because it is very easy to think “like everyone else”. No effort is needed to condemn others, scold politicians and bosses, while shifting responsibility for their failures onto the shoulders of others. It is difficult to live without complaints, it is necessary to solve problems on your own, not to look for the guilty ones, but to constantly strive to fix everything. The understanding that life depends only on the person himself comes to a few in our country. If the behavior is changed, then the living conditions will become different, but if you do nothing, but just go with the flow, then there is a high probability that life will be similar to the existence of others.
Step 4
Changing destinies is possible, you can influence your habits, get out of their comfortable existence and start changing the world. It is important not to try to improve the entire planet or country, you just need to take care of yourself. But not all people decide to do this, because it is much easier to live according to already proven principles. And although you can often hear that a person seeks to fix everything, his actions do not prove this. Only those who move, who stubbornly strive for something else, making efforts, have real results.
