Psychological studies have shown that a woman's ability to cook deliciously, look beautiful and be sexy in bed are not the most important qualities that attract men.
Quite often you can observe examples when a seemingly completely nondescript woman managed to marry a rich, young and handsome gentleman. Conversely, a bright, beautiful lady vegetates alone or changes men like gloves. Or they themselves change, not ready to stay for a long time with this beauty and create a harmonious family with her.
What is attractiveness based on?
The sympathies of men are directly related to their basic needs. We will not consider in detail the notorious pyramid of the psychologist Maslow. Let's just note that basic human needs cover four levels: physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual. If a woman is able to satisfy a need, at least of one level, that is already good. She will be attractive to a man. But for the development of serious relationships that can lead to a registry office, it is necessary to capture other levels. Ideally, be able to satisfy a man's need in all aspects. But this happens very rarely.
At the first stage, it is important to understand what qualities repel a man from a woman. Representatives of the stronger sex strive for freedom, power, dream of being irresistible macho. Nobody wants to be included in the category of "henpecked" and "losers". And if a lady in one way or another tries to humiliate her chosen one, limit his freedom, subordinate to her will, then, most likely, he will run away from her without looking back. Of course, there are marriages where the husband suffers humiliation, follows the spouse's commands, like a dog. But, firstly, in such families there is neither harmony nor love. Secondly, such a relationship is akin to a dormant volcano, ready to explode at any moment. When a man is unable to endure his position, he will leave. And the wife will be perplexed, they say, “what did he lack? Well fed, dressed, washed …"
Character traits that attract men
Patience. One of the main qualities of a woman. As the proverb says: "God endured and told us to." Of course, there is a limit to everything. And if the spouse crosses the "red line", cheats, mocks, drinks deeply, then the question must be posed point-blank. But small "pranks" should be skipped and not paid special attention to them, do not "drink" your betrothed. This attitude should be applied to children as well. Minor offenses must be forgiven and tolerated, and the fundamental points should be discussed seriously with appropriate conclusions. Before throwing tantrums about your spouse's behavior, ask yourself the question: "What is more important to you, to be happy or to be right?"
Another important character trait is self-confidence. Pathetic and whiny "gray mice" can attract the attention of men only with the aim of regretting. But pity is not a feeling on which family relationships can be built. A confident woman helps a man to become self-confident. Her words are taken more seriously than the flaccid text of an insecure lady. But it is important to understand correctly what confidence means. Confidence should not be confused with Vixen's behavior. A self-confident person is not one who constantly criticizes others and commands, but one who does not allow himself to be urged on and humiliated. Confidence must be reasonable. No man can be right all the time. Nobody is immune to mistakes. Therefore, confidence in the correctness of your opinion should be balanced. And if you realized that you are mistaken, then you do not need to defend your opinion by any means, argue, and even more so hysteria. You must be able to admit your mistakes. This is the third character trait that is highly valued by men. Do not be afraid to admit that you did something wrong, made a mistake, misunderstood the information, made the wrong conclusions. If a confident woman with dignity admits that her opponent is right, she looks even more attractive. I want to deal with her, communicate.
Humor is the head of everything
Perhaps the most important feeling for a person is a sense of humor. It is difficult to live without him, and in a relationship you simply cannot do without him. Humor is such a universal tool that can resolve any conflict, relieve tension in difficult situations, help resolve disputes, smooth over sharp corners, and avoid aggression. Undoubtedly, women who have a developed sense of humor, who know how to insert a suitable joke at the time, are valued by men much higher than boring bores.
Of course, external qualities are also important for attracting male attention. But this works at first. After all, any form must sooner or later reveal its content. It is important to strive for harmony of external and internal. Try to develop the above listed qualities of character along with care for your face, skin, hair, correction of body weight, style, image. Then you will definitely find happiness in your personal life.
