Even in the worst, finding pros is the hallmark of successful people. They know how to deal great with what is worth the effort, and what will turn out to be just another whim. How can we learn?
Even Socrates in ancient Greece proposed to "sift" everything heard through three sieves: a sieve of truth, a sieve of kindness and a sieve of benefit. One of the most talented psychologists of our time, Heidi Reeder, who is the author of the book "If you want to win, form connections!", Also used this principle, but she only suggested taking slightly different parameters as a basis. Heidi suggested asking herself just three questions before making another decision. This principle is called the "GPS principle".
Sieve 1: Skills
Successful people strive to learn new things, but only if in the future this knowledge is useful to them. Time and fit factors also need to be considered. For example, having conceived a new application for GooglePlay, first of all, you need to understand programming, and only then master the skills of persuasion in order to attract advertisers.
Sieve 2: positive emotions (Good Time)
Successful people often accept the offers that life throws at them. But they also don't like to waste their time. If you receive an offer, first ask yourself, will it bring you joy and inspiration? Focus only on your feelings and emotions, do not look at whether it is fashionable or not. It should give you a sense of creativity and community with other people.
Sieve 3: significant people (People)
Successful people strive to establish strong bonds with other people, and these are not necessarily "useful contacts." Successful people strive to be among the masters of their craft, innovators, from whom you can learn something new. When you are going to your next meeting, ask yourself why you are going there. If you are looking forward to a pleasant company and interesting acquaintances, bon voyage. But if you agree to a meeting for fear of offending someone with your refusal, feel free to say "no" and do not regret it.
Once you master this way of making decisions, you will no longer have to struggle with choosing among the many alternatives. GPS will guide you through life to success and joy.
